10 sex tips to make long-term sex more exciting

SheKnows lists Ten Sex Tips that Put the Lust Back into Long- Term Sex. Fun and quirky tips that will surely make you lust for the one you love.

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Sex tips to rekindle the heat

Margeaux Baulch Klein

In long-term relationships, it’s easy to settle into a routine with your partner that, while may be comfortable, can make your sex life a tad mundane. However, by shaking it up and using these sex tips, you can revive the spark that first brought you two together. Here are a few ideas to consider.

Sex Tip 1: Keep it pretty

First things first, it’s impossible to have great sex if you don’t feel sexy, so treat yourself to a blowout or some new lingerie , whatever is needed to put the “va-va-voom” back into your step.

Sex Tip 2: Flirt with each other

Make a habit of sending playful, sexy messages to him throughout the day. Make him salivate with anticipation by telling him what you’re wearing and what you want to do to him later.

Sex Tip 3: Set the mood

Don’t underestimate the power of lighting a few candles. Make sure your bedroom is sexy and doesn’t have toys littering it. And turn off the tv!

Sex Tip 4: Just kiss

Agree to place a ban on sex for a certain length of time and just kiss and focus on foreplay. Abstaining from sex has the added benefit of charging up both of your libidos.

Sex Tip 5: Surprise Him

Don’t wear any underwear and let him find out.

Sex Tip 6: Watch an Erotic Film Together

It doesn’t have to be porn for it to be sexy. Some favorites: Body Heat, Belle du Jour, Last Tango in Paris, Like Water for Chocolate.

Sex Tip 7: Play an adult game

Check out Game night for couples and Games that lovers play for some naughty suggestions.

Sex Tip 8: Discover a new position

There are over 60 different positions in the Kama Sutra, so there’s no excuse to not try a new one at least once a week!

Sex Tip 9: Share your fantasies

A little role-playing can be fun and it doesn’t have to be limited to the bedroom. Start the fun before you even get home by meeting at a bar and pretending you just met.

Sex Tip 10: Get out of the bedroom

Sometimes a change of locale is all that’s needed to rev up the action. Try having sex somewhere unexpected; just be careful not to get caught!

If any of the ideas makes you feel nervous, then you should definitely try it first. The great part of being with someone for an extended period of time is that you can fully trust and feel safe with him, so don’t hesitate to try something out of your normal comfort zone, especially if it means revving your sex life up!

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Women Can’t Write About Sex?

By Irene Ogrodnik

According to an article in Reuters, Kate Copstick, the new owner of Britain’s Erotic Review , claims women are not passionate enough about sex and concentrate too much on feelings to be able to write raunchy stories.

 

In a controversial decision, Copstick will (almost) exclusively use male writers because “they know a lot more about sex.” I doubt that such will settle well with readers–especially women.

The article also states Copstick claims that women aren’t straightforward about sex (which, for the most part, I can agree with).  The one thing that isn’t clear to me in Copstick’s reason for avoiding women writers is this: Won’t her decision to exclude women just contribute to their lack of openness regarding sex? If these women are told they can’t write about sex, how are they expected to write freely about it, without facing more negative criticism than male writers?

 

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